Black.
Queer.
Dominant.

ABOUT ME

Who Am I? I am Black, queer and masculine of center. I am navigating polyamory with my best friend and partner of 19 years in all its complexity and beauty. I am notoriously private. But I love public conversations. As I explore the intersections of my identity I’m eager to have this conversation with other Queer, Trans, GNC Black folks. Hence this space for my musings, thoughts and questions. Curious if there are more of us out there.

Sensual Dominance 101

My journey to Dominance was driven by femmes of color, especially Black femmes. Their desires and needs moved me from being just a top in...

Dominant Vs. Tops: What Kind of Dom Are You???

When I first launched the Black Queer Dom Circle (a learning space for queer/trans/GNC Black folks interested in Dominance and kink) I...

Practicing Consent.

*trigger warning... I once gave someone a hug without consent. I didn't realize it at the time. And that's the really challenging thing...

Black. Queer. Dominant.

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Black.
Queer.
Dominant.