

Find. Your. Tribe.
We are the ULTIMATE wellness community for LGBTQ folks of Color. From our events, to online trainings and amazing trips/travel. We live the soft life. The good life.
joy /joi/ [noun]: A feeling of great pleasure and happiness.
We believe that pursuing wellness is more successsful when it is a collective effort. Do you have the right tribe? The Black Queer Dom University is a space for health, wellness, play & discovering a life path that feeds your JOY. It is the gathering place for my House, the Black Queer Dom Society.
Manifest the life you want NOW. Join the University for a chance to learn & grow together. Let's release the expectations of this world & find ways to unleash your dreams.
What Does Membership Include???
For a monthly subscription of $10 you get ALL THIS....
Access our Online Education Community
Online Courses & LIVE Workshops
In Person Experiences That Will CHANGE You.
How It Works
1Register
Membership is open year round. You can pay $10/month or $99/year. Once accepted. You can sign up and join the University online to start your wellness & joy journey.
2Introduce Yourself!
Tell us your story! We want to know why you're here. It helps us keep our community connected and helps you pursue your dreams to the fullest.
3Connect & Learn.
Then you'll set up a profile and be able to dive right in to online courses, community boards, events and workshops. You can go back and watch any of our past sessions--on demand.
A. Tribe. Lifestyle.
One of the BEST perks of being a member of the University is the opportunity to travel with the Society, communue & learn new skills together. To immerse yourself in wellness and healing activities with my crew. Some experiences are exclusively for my House but at least one event/trip a year is open to everyone.
Our 2026 Experiences & Travel Include:
Submissive Summit (Virtual)
BQD Dom Weekend (Atlanta, GA)
Society Fire Intensive & High Protocol Dinners (DC)
Society Family Trip: Folsom (SF & Oakland, CA)
Acountability is a Practice
One we believe that is BEST DONE in COMMUNITY. The Black Queer Dom Society is my House. My Tribe. And my deepest community of practice. The largest Black, Queer, Trans & Nonbinary High Protocol House in the country. We are grateful for the Leather legacy that shapes us. And elders that guide us. And the ancestors that paved the way.
We believe that all of us are evolving. Growing. Learning. And thus we will all disappointment and let each other down. This is how we approach things when there is a breakdown. When mistakes are made. It's hard to recover, heal. We know that this happens OFTEN. So we build in practices and processes to help us get better at navigating these HARD conversations. We invite you to join us in that practice.


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